Yes. This is just a thought about how we are looked at. How we are mentioned. How we are displayed.
I didnt really know how to start this, but ok, here goes.
I have been reading blogs and articles online, in newspapers, etc, about porn and how it makes people feel. About "does porn make more violence", "does porn make people better", "is porn promoting rape"...etc etc. And what I have found out is somewhat like this:
In the pornindustry, we have women,(sluts,teens,milf`s, etc) who are being raped,gangbanged,s&m-bondage-raped-tied up-etc. First time this-first time that. And they are really tied up, being used, being raped, they are hung up in ropes, upside down, being raped with whatever is avalable there and then, they are whipped, and they "like it"......SAYS WHO?????
Men, oh, they are MEN. They do the raping, the whatever. And off course, they like it.
But, HOW COME the women are refferred to as sluts, whores, bitches, and all the bad names in the book? I wonder.
Then we have the "extreme" porn, where the girls are really being hurt. For WHAT? For men to be happy? Or just because the fact that ordinary sex is too mild? And we need to see the girls really hurt in order to be able to react?
Let me ask: Do you like to see people hurt? (girls that is). Do that bring you more pleasure? Will that make you more of a MAN?
So let us see: DOES the porn make more rapes? Or does it really increase it?
I dont think it make LESS rapes. See, women are shown to ENJOY being raped. So why should men not do it?
I was told by a "man" once, that "Yes, women do like being raped". I was stunned. I just LOOKED at him, and asked:"HOW can you say that?"
He said:"Well, maybe they dont like it at first, but after just a minute, they love it"........
I never asked him if he had been watching porn, but I am sure he had. And the fact that he could bring himself to say that, made me sick! This is unfortunatly how so many "men" think. They believe in what the porn indutry say. "Women like to be raped, to be abused, to be gangbanged, to be this and that". NOT TRUE.
A real relationship is NOT like this. Women, MOST of them anyway, like to be held, to be loved, to have hugs, kisses, and to be SAFE! How can one be safe if one is just a servant? To be there to serve the man, to do whatever he want, whenever he want, in a leash, whenever he feel the need to abuse and use? To maybe be photographed, shared to others, to never know who see you on or offline, to always be worried about if maybe he will bring other "men" home to rape you? Because it is rape, when the woman dont want to do whatever, and are still too scared to say no. Because you see, being on a leash is to be submissive, to be scared whenever he say something, or even look at you. Is that love? No, that is actually hate.
I have a feeling that men who watch porn, share their women with others, (being it pictures on or offline, videos, talks about how to do things with her, how to make her submissive etc) really hate women. They dont see them as equal. They see them as a use-throw away object. Something that is there for THEM. To be slaves, in and outside of the bedroom. How can that possibly be love?
Porn use teenagers because they are young, easy to form, and after a while, they will do whatever, because they are too scared to say NO! And then, they are sold. Online human trafficking is so "normal" now, people can find these girls everywhere. I am so sorry. I wish men would feel what these girls feel....
And, to wonder why men call women sluts, whores, bitches, etc. I dont wonder about that anymore. It is because they learn from the internet, from magazines, from their dads, how to "treat a woman". They learn how to lie, cheat, put their girlfriends down. And internet is, I think, the main source of that. And of course, TV and radio.....
Today it is too easy to find this. I call it dirt. DIRT. Because that is what it is. And again, people dont see how many girls are hurt, killed, because of this.
MEN OF ALL AGES: PLEASE take a GOOD stand about this. STOP IT! DO NOT CONTINUE THIS EVIL CIRCLE. WE, as women, are HUMANS. We are not plastic, allthough the women in the pornindustry is. (fake boobs, fake faces, fake everything) Us normal women, we are who we are. And still we get scared to show ourselves, because if we dont have that "fantasybody", we will not be "loved". Why is it, that men think we are "perfect"....or...rather...WANT US TO BE perfect?
We are not. BUT, we are no sluts, whores, bitches either. We are MOTHERS, DAUGHTERS, GRANDMOTHERS, SISTERS, NIECES, GRANDDAUGHTERS.
What if you saw your own granddaughter, sister, daughter, or mother being abused like that? Would you share it on to your "friends"? Or would you be sad and maybe angry? THINK ABOUT IT! And think about how your spouse feel, when she feel you go online to watch porn, in order to be with her.
And one more thing while I am at it:
WHERE is the kiss? The hug? The talk about "I love you", the feeling of worth? You dont do or say it because you "know" we are not worth it? Where is the cuddle? All those things that USED to be important, it is gone. Why? Do you think we dont want it anymore? Are we just for use when in bed? Or in the kitchen? Or.....as a toy where you can do whatever you feel, and we should just take it?
Ordinary women, we actually have feelings. Yes, we do put them far back, when you treat us like a slut,whore or bitch. We dont want you to see our tears. Because they dont mean nothing to you, do they? You see, how you treat those women, will reflect back on you. You will see us not smiling anymore when you are around. You will see us not talking anymore when you are around. We will not joke anymore. Because, that will just make you mad, and want to make us even more submissive.
Is that what you want?
And why is it that men are never "sluts, whores, and bitches?" Why is it they are "strong, don juan, sexy,".....when THEY are ones talking bad about you, putting you down, treating you like nothing, never give a hug, never touch you unless to make you feel bad?
COME ON GIRLS! BEAT THEM! GET AWAY FROM THEM! THEY ARE NOT MEN! THEY ARE LOWER THAN ANIMALS!!!!!!
Animals actually show affection. These males dont. And whatever they say that can make you feel even more bad than you already did, they will! Is that love? NO!!!!
And they learn this from the "nice" porn they watch. Where THEY get their "goodies", and YOU are just a doll, in high heels....(who the heck wear high heels to bed anyways.....)
No, get away from them. And please, stand up for yourself. Be strong!!!!!
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